Husband Gave Me Type 1 Herpes, I Want To Leave, What Are The Chances…?

How do I know if I have it like I don’t have blisters but on my penis its like I have a redness and peeling like but that’s almost like it’s acting like a sunburn I’m scared someone please clarify. I wish I had the choice instead of just one day waking up with it and then he tryed to say I gave it to him but later fessed up that he had it and didnt didn’t want to lose me but that’s what happened in the I couldn’t forgive him for not at least letting me choose what was right for me it was like he was waiting for me to catch it and then hoping I wouldn’t leave because who would want me now. I have herpes type 1 and I haven’t passed it on to my partner. I don’t want to leave him, but I also don’t want to contract HSV-1 for a few reasons: firstly, I saw some research on the internet that suggests it is strongly linked to Alzheimers, which my family has some history of. I’ve been with my husband 10 years and he’s never had a genital herpes outbreak, but if we thought he literally couldn’t contract it from my cold sore virus we may not be as cautious. Or maybe my dad gave me HSV-1 by being my dad, or my aunts by being my aunts. Can I pass the virus to a partner if I have no symptoms? Risk of infection between recurrences (asymptomatic shedding); I’ve heard it can come back, why? These viruses do not cause spots or blisters like herpes simplex. The only difference is that type 1 is more likely to reappear when it is caught on the face and is less likely to recur when it is caught on the genitals; type 2 is more likely to recur when affecting the genitals.

Husband Gave Me Type 1 Herpes, I Want To Leave, What Are The Chances…? 2He said he doesnt care and still want to be with me. He wanted to have unprotected sex, but i really dont want to put him at risk. For most people, the anxiety over not telling your partner you have herpes is worse than the telling itself. Always using latex condoms can reduce the risk of transmitting the herpes virus by approximately 50. I feel that I can trust you and I’d like to tell you something personal. New doc said it might be herpes, but didn’t test or give me anything for it. He said there was a chance it could be something else, but to be safe we’d start on Valtrex right away. My husband and I have both had mouth cold sores many time.

I mean is there a chance that he may not have contracted it. She told me she was on medication for it and hadnt had an outbreak in a year. If you both have Herpes type 1, whether contracted orally or genitally, you are protected against Herpes 1 body infections; that is not to mean you do not shed nor is to mean that you should not use protection during sexual activity, as more of the virus is not good. My husband and I have not had intercourse in over a year. I want to know what this means to me. Hi I have been tested of HSV1 and 2 and the results are IGG type 1 Negative and IGG type 2 Negative. If I were to become intimate with her, how big of a risk is there for me to contract it while using a condom if she has no symptoms or sores? Dr. She wants to have sex alot but using a condom for me is like nothing at all. While I’d still have herpes forever, the outbreak that prompted me to go to the doctor in the first place would have been less likely to reoccur if it’d been HSV-1. And if you don’t have an outbreak ever, then you just have it, and there is a chance you could pass it to other people. Telling people who you want to sleep with can be freaking horrifying.

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I had to try it too and you can,t believe that in just few weeks i started using it all my pains stop gradually and i had to leave without the herpes the doctor gave to me. There are herpes sites but they kind of creep me out at this point. If ok, want to jump on my soapbox for a second, if anyone reading this has herpes, do the right thing, let people know. She said the conversation with her new guy took less than five minutes and didn’t blow her chances with him at all. They got oral herpes (type 1) from kissing someone. Both of my blood tests for HSV-1 and HSV-2 were negative. The type matters tremendously, both experts told me. Most people wouldn’t want to take a 20 percent chance that they’ve wrongly diagnosed a lifelong disease. My husband gets cold soars on he’s lips but I don’t have any symptoms he says I gave him herpes but I don’t get it I hade physical done pap smear and blood test and doctor says everything is normal. I have had herpes-1 virus with cold sores on my mouth since I was a child. For the most art. im like u. my mother gave me a cold sore one day she sent me off to school and i have had them ever since. Since this is a monogamous relationship, do we need to use any protection for genital or oral sex? I understand that we both have antibodies for 1 and 2 so I don’t believe we can reinfect each other. My question is: if we both already have herpes 1 & 2 can we a) re-infect each other or b) cause either of us to have more outbreaks? Also, can we spread the virus to other locations on our own bodies?. Leave this field blank. If you stay together there is a chance you could be infected – even if you use a condom. Like how does a partner of 8 years can give you herpes? unless your silly enough to let them give it to you (like you suggest for OP) or they were cheating on you (girls that like Dipsh!ts and Playas, it their own fault/ bad luck). I caught Herpes Type 1 (Cold sores) 2 days after I was born from a nurse who forgot to wash her hands on duty and because i rubbed my eyes (which babies do), I almost lost the sight in my left eye and have had recurring infections ever since. If, however she she behaves irresponsibly about it then leave her.

The Top Ten Questions About Genital Herpes: Everything You Always Wanted To Know But Were Afraid To Ask

I’ve been dating someone who just told me he/she has genital herpes. 1. Q. I just found out I have genital herpes. How can I prevent my partner from getting it? If they are willing to take the risk, they will also need to know what to watch for in case transmission does occur. If the test results for either of you come back negative for either HSV type, get retested 3-4 months after your partner s initial onset of symptoms. About 50 to 80 percent of U.S. adults carry HSV-1 (oral herpes), while 20 percent of people age 12 and older have HSV-2. Using barriers like condoms and dental dams during sex can lower your risk of getting herpes, but they are not 100 percent effective. Hi All, So my girlfriend just told me she has genital hsv 1. This forum is an un-mediated, patient-to-patient forum for questions and support regarding herpes issues such as: Herpes symptoms and treatments, causes, diagnosis, and herpes in men, tests, telling your spouse or partner. I have dated a handful of women and none have told me about any type of hsv 1. Can someone shed some light as I am very concerned and do not want to leave her without knowing the facts or what I will be dealing with. So making love poses a risk to the non-infected spouse. Obviously you need to forgive your cheating husband, but where does that leave your sex life? I had HSV type 1 which is typically ORAL HERPES not genital herpes.

Could the infection spread if she gave me oral sex? I have kinda stopped talking to her about it all, i just would like to know my risks, i have been with my husband for over a year and just found out i have had the virus of over a year and half. I don’t see the risk as being worth it. but i don’t know much about the virus, just the things i have read and what my doc has told me. After three days she called me back and told me I had herpes type 1. Leave this field blank. I just learned about the potential of oral HSV-1 to spread to the genital region, and I feel a little freaked out and worried about my girlfriend of 3 years. HSV-1 can spread to the genitals, what sort of probability are they talking about?. If you are participating in RISKY BEHAVIOR, does that mean you assume the risk? He got to leave, but I will have this for the rest of my life. I trusted and loved my husband. She denies it and made all these claims like, Don’t accuse me of shit. My husband was diagnosed with herpes about 1 years ago. I just found out 2 weeks ago that my culture was positive for herpes. Sure you feel bad at the time for leaving her but its just easier for the future and your life to come. Just do your part as a decent human being and inform future intimate partners that you have herpes. it is there choice if they are willing to take the risk and your choice to take necessary precautions. He is the best man I have ever met, he treats me like a princess. There are two types of HSV: Herpes Simplex Virus Type One (HSV-1) is the virus that commonly causes cold sores around the mouth or nose. The blisters often join up and burst, leaving an ulcer or sore. Flu-like symptoms and severe ulcers are not usually seen in recurrences of herpes. My husband doesn’t have the disease will he get it from me? As for the person who gave me hsv-1 he had the oral herpes since he was a little kid and gets outbreaks frequently as well. All I had was a shallow ulcer type sore right where my urethra is. My husband is having a major outbreak of cold sores on his lip right now and It brings back memories! He has had it since he was a little kid probably from people kissing him as a child. Always dry the area with a blow dryer on low after bathing. You dont want to leave it wet. 4. I have never been promiscuous, but my husband in his younger years was very promiscuous. I’m not justifying my actions but its like dang he wasnt honest with me. I had mess up several possible relationship by telling them after I have intimacy to them that now I know telling ppl ahead is the right way doesn’t matter how worry or upset will b if they leave u by this. They are 50 similar in DNA however type 1 is the cause of genital herpes in 30 of cases.

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